Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Change is inevitable (but I don't have to like it)


Monday night, the 30th, I went out for dinner at Olive Garden to Denae, Jerri and Pam to celebrate Pam's birthday on August 1 and mine a few weeks ago. As we were sitting there I got a phone call from Chad saying they were at my house and wondering if I'd be home soon. I explained where I was and what I was doing and that I'd talk to him later. I had an inkling at that time what was coming. About an hour later I got a text from him asking me to call when I got home. By that time I knew for certain what was happening and I was right.  Chad was offered, and accepted, the job in Tucson. I'm thrilled for him but devastated for me. Selfish, right? I was a blubbering mess the rest of the evening and didn't sleep last night. This morning wasn't much better but life goes on. I'm glad that Chad got a job that he really wanted and worked hard to get. I hope he realizes what a blessing that is to him and remembers the source of his many blessings. I'm just praying that things go smoothly for them; that they'll be able to sell their house quickly and be able to find something suitable there so that they can all go down together. I'd hate to see them separated for a time. Families need to be together. Doug has a few days off in mid October and we had planned on driving down to Moab and spending a few days there. Well....change of plans! I've already been checking into flights to Tucson. A 12-hour drive is just too much for us anymore with Doug's back, my knees and hips, etc.

Speaking of Doug's back, it's really been giving him problems for the last few weeks. I think he reinjured it when he lifted Finley up to look at our tall sunflowers. He's had back problems for years and it doesn't take much to aggravate the problem. This time he's had radiculopathy down the left leg though which was worrisome so he called the doctor and amazingly was able to get in that same day (yesterday morning). The good news is that it's not a disc problem, he doesn't need injections or surgeries, x-rays or MRIs. The bad news is that it's a chronic condition that will continue to flare throughout his life. That was discouraging but I'm grateful that he doesn't have to undergo surgery. The doctor prescribed physical therapy with the hopes that the therapist can get the pain to settle down and also teach Doug some exercises, stretches, etc., to help try to prevent further problems occurring as often and also to try to make the exacerbations shorter because he'll have coping techniques. He can'tt get into see the therapist until next Monday. I sure hope it helps!
I had the morning free so made some zucchini brownies (cake), got some spaghetti sauce going in the crock pot, and made a batch of salsa verde. We grew tomatillos for the first time this year and they're very prolific. The sauce was quick and easy to make though. Anney then texted and asked if she could drop Finley off at 12:30 (instead of 3:30). They were planning on going to a movie in SLC tonight and we were going to feed him here and then take him home and tuck him in bed. Well, she's busy with work and now busy trying to get a house on the market, pack, etc so needed to bring him early. We met Doug for an impromptu Walmart parking lot (grassy area) picnic. After Doug went back into work I took Finley over to the park to the splash pad. I hadn't planned ahead and didn't have his swimming suit or a towel so he just went in his clothes. When it's 97 degrees outside clothes dry off quickly. He had fun and it was a good break in the sweltering heat. Came home and played with him in the basement until Doug got home.

It was fun to eat dinner together and listen to this bright little boy talk about things. He was telling us about a library book he had and said "I don't know why my Superman book says 'man of steel' on it. That's not right. They should say 'man of good'."  It took a minute to figure out what he was saying but then it made perfect sense. He knows that to "steal" is bad and he knows that Superman is good and so can't figure out why people are saying that Superman steals. So cute, and so insightful too. I tried to explain steal vs. steel but didn't get far, after all he is only 3!  He ate his dinner well and said "This tastes so good. Thank you grandma for making it for me."  Polite and smart; a great combination!
Took him home and played a rousing game of Candyland before starting the bedtime routine. He wanted Doug to tuck him in this time since I did last time. Such a sweetheart and loved those bedtime hugs from my boy.

Friday, July 27, 2018

Like father, like son



Pioneers and playdough


It’s been a fun albeit busy week. I turned in my invoice last night for 111 reports for the last two weeks. Wish it would be that busy all the time but it’s been feast or famine for over 20 years so that’s not going to change anytime soon.  Pioneer Day (July 24th) was on Tuesday this year and since Doug didn’t have to work this time I decided to invite the family for a backyard barbecue. I’m rather surprised that we were able to get together without planning in advance but it worked and they came.
With Chad interviewing all over the country looking for a new job and with Derek and Shelby heading off for his PhD fairly soon I want to be able to get together as often as we can.


It was a hot day but manageable under the big tree so we ate outside. Chad grilled the fish while Doug made Dutch oven rolls. The girls brought side dishes. I had filled the wading pool up early in the morning so that the sun would warm the water and after we ate the kids played in the pool together. Finley is getting better with Zofia every day and it was fun to see them interact. Doug made a Dutch oven chocolate cherry cobbler for dessert and I made some vanilla ice cream. It was way too hot by then though so we came inside to eat dessert. Everyone left by about 5:00 and then I had work that I needed to finish up so Doug and I could go to the temple the next day.



 Thursday was a long but fun day. Finley was here from 8:30 to 4:30 and then Zofia was here from 5:30 to 10:30.  Whew! I loved interacting with the kids but I’m tired today. We had fun playing with Playdough with Finley. It’s just been too hot outside to play so we’ve had to find things to do inside. I ran to The Greenery to buy some bran muffins and honey butter to take to Jerri. She had a kidney stone and has had a miserable two weeks but finally had outpatient surgery on Wednesday to take care of it. I took Zoe in the stroller and we went to visit with the muffins in hand. She’s doing a lot better but still won’t be able to work until next week. I think she enjoyed playing with the baby. When Zoe started fussing we left so we could start the bedtime routine. I knew exactly how to get Finley to sleep but Zoe is a completely different baby and we’re not used to each other but she finally settled down around 7:45. She’s such a happy baby but she’s trying to get her fourth tooth and hadn’t napped good all day so she was overtired. It was a good day.

Sunday, July 22, 2018

Quiet week

It was a pretty laid back and quiet week. I had a lot of work so that mainly filled my time. I’m glad for the work though with the dental bills looming. We had Finley both Tuesday and Thursday since Anney’s sitter is out of town but luckily Doug was home both days so he was basically the entertainment committee while I worked. They played out in the water on Tuesday. Finley was kind of lethargic and a bit feverish on Thursday so that wasn’t the best day for him but we still had fun.
It was an eating out week. Tuesday night Doug and I went to Rooster’s (after all, I had a birthday card from them for a BOGO meal), Wednesday we went to Silicia Mia with his siblings and a couple of his cousins, and then Thursday night Caryol, Angela and I went to Kneader’s. I enjoyed talking with Caryol and Angela again and getting caught up. We used to spend so much time together when we served in the RS Presidency and then still got together almost weekly after that for quite a while. Then Angela’s work changed and life got busier for everyone and that just doesn’t happen anymore. Caryol and I get together for ice cream a couple nights a month but the three of us haven’t done anything since last December. Life is too busy sometimes!
Between working this week (mostly while waiting for work to download) I worked on a donation baby quilt that I plan to give to Catholic Community Services for their St. Martha’s Baby Project. I feel strongly about this project, which gives complete layettes to mothers who have children born in poverty with the mothers often single. I have a lot of fabric for baby quilts and also supplies to make receiving blankets and burp cloths so I want to do as much as I can. I can’t do everything but I can do something.  I’m trying to decide whether to tie this quilt or to try and be brave and quilt it on my new machine. Part of my justification for buying the new machine was so that I could quilt small quilts on it but I’m still a little nervous about it. Guess I just need to jump in and try!

Sunday, July 15, 2018

Family

We’ve been home nearly two weeks and it’s time to get caught up again. I had a dentist appointment on the 6th only to find out what I already knew, that the tooth could not be saved and had to come out ASAP. I came home and called Dr. Cassity’s office and they were able to schedule me for July 13th, which was pretty amazing that I could be seen in a week. Ray Garner, our dentist, prescribed me some pain medication to get me through the week. I hate to take the stuff but sometimes it’s necessary. It’s a blessing that the pain was much more intermittent than it had been on tour and I could usually get away with taking just one dose a day.

I decided that to celebrate my birthday I wanted my family together so we offered to take the kids out for dinner on Saturday night the 7th. We met in Farmington at Station Park since that’s kind of halfway between Murray and Roy. We stopped and picked up Chad, Anney and Finley and then met Derek, Shelby and Zoe there. We had dinner at Couscous, a Mediterranean grill, and then went to the Baked Bear for ice cream for dessert. It was fun to be together and even more fun to watch my cute grandchildren enjoying their ice cream!

Friday the 13th came finally, the day for the tooth to come out. Doug was working a 13-hour shift that day (his second that week, poor guy) so couldn’t go with me. He was worried about me driving home after the extraction but I assured him that I’d be fine. After all, this is my 15th extraction, I’m kind of old hat with it by now. The extraction went well with the only hiccup being my reaction to the numbing agent. I’ve had problems in the past with drugs containing epinephrine but have been okay for years. I don’t know if they gave me something different this time or what but I started shaking violently and it was a good 5-10 minutes before I was back to normal. The doctor was very good and calming and stayed with me but it’s still nerve wracking to not be in control of your body. After that bit of excitement the tooth came out quickly and I stopped by Walmart on the way home to drop off my prescription and so that Doug could see I was alive and well. Came home and rested and then I felt so good that I actually worked for a few hours that evening. I only took one dose of the pain medication as soon as I got home and haven’t taken anything since. It’s been such a relief to have that tooth out of there!



Today the kids came for Sunday dinner. I love having them here but always miss Matt and Sherlyn too. I couldn’t eat much that I had prepared since my extraction site is still healing but everyone else ate lots and enjoyed it so that made me happy. I snapped a quick picture of Finley before he left. We bought him a knight and horse toy in Vancouver and then I found a cute orange shirt for him so wanted a picture. After they left we took Zoe outside and took several pictures of her. She was so very tired, she’s teething again, but looked so cute in the beautiful dress her Grandma and Grandpa Ostler brought home from Scotland for her.


Monday, July 9, 2018

Tour 2018



June 23, 2018
Day six of tour and I haven’t written anything yet. I must do better. I must admit that I haven’t had the best attitude yet this tour and must do better with that too. I’ve been fighting depression and anxiety again a lot for the past 3-4 months and coming on tour hasn’t helped with that but I need to try and do better. We left SLC on Monday the 18th and flew to LAX. There were several flights that left that day and luckily we were on the last flight. The people who flew the earlier flights arrived and couldn’t check into the hotel and so had to entertain themselves all day. I wouldn’t have enjoyed that. I didn’t love arriving at rush hour at LAX and fighting the freeway for about 2.5 hours to get to the hotel but it could’ve been worse. We arrived at the really nice Marriott in Newport Beach and found that our room had a private balcony with a beautiful view of the ocean. We had a catered dinner outside in the rose garden and that was nice although it was a bit cool with the breeze blowing from the ocean. We were across the street from a nice mall that had a Whole Foods so after dinner we walked over there and bought granola, yogurt, juice, etc for our breakfasts for the next two days.




Doug had free time on Tuesday until 1:45 so we slept in, had our breakfast, and then caught the free hotel shuttle down to Corona Del Mar. It was a beautiful beach and I would’ve loved to have stayed there longer but our time was very limited. There was a burger place on the beach and so Doug got a shrimp roll and I had a burger which we finished eating on the shuttle on the way back to the hotel. A quick hour at the beach but it was good therapy. Doug then headed off for his sound check. I rested for a bit and then wandered across to the mall. Since it was Doug’s birthday I wanted to go find See’s Candy and buy him some of his favorite dark chocolate raspberry cream candies. It’s a huge mall and very confusing but I finally found See’s. I ate at an organic bakery with all sorts of good sounding things on the menu. I ordered a veggie quiche and a pitcher of raspberry lemonade. I sat out in their patio and enjoyed the ocean breezes while I ate and read my book. The guests boarded the bus at 6:15 for the concert in Costa Mesa. The venue was fairly full. I was frustrated that they put all the guests together again. In past tours, the first 2-3 for sure, we were interspersed more with the audience. It was a great opportunity to mingle, talk about the choir, give out some CDs, etc. I’m a naturally reticent person but found myself enjoying those opportunities and remembering them as some of the best memories of past tours.


Wednesday’s free time for Doug was until 1:00. We slept in again and then just lounged about reading and taking it easy. We walked over to the mall to get him some lunch, a sandwich from Subway, and then sat and watched the koi in a pond at the mall while he ate. We found a gelato place and had a cup of that as well. I wasn’t too hungry and had decided to wait and get some lunch later. He left and I napped, sewed and read. I wandered down to the restaurant in the hotel but at the last minute my anxiety reared up and I couldn’t make myself go in there alone so just went back up to the room. We had plenty of food including bread, cheese, carrots, dried fruit, etc., so I just had a meal in the room before going down to catch the bus at 5:30 for the concert in downtown LA at the Walt Disney Concert Hall. It was rush hour again and took up two hours to get there. There happened to be a little bakery/cafe/stand in front of the theater so I treated myself to a delectable mango cream cheese croissant. Yum! The audience was much more receptive at this concert (although the first half was still the LONG, BORING, classical section and several audience members were spotted nodding off). Once again our seats were all together and separate from any audience members. Sigh.

Thursday the 21st was a long day. Up early for breakfast at 6:45, grab a box lunch, stand in a long line forever to get on a bus, and then a scheduled 10-hour bus ride to San Francisco. Luckily the trip took less time than expected and we arrived in about eight hours. It was still a long trip though. I dozed off a few times. We passed miles and miles of vineyards, olive orchards, pistachio orchards and farm land. When we stopped for a 30 minute break at a rest area I was able to see pistachios growing in the orchard and it was fascinating to see them growing in clumps. We had dinner together in a ballroom upon arriving and then wandered across the street to a Trader Joe’s to buy more yogurt, granola, etc for breakfast. They had nectarines for a great price so we bought a whole case (12) of them to eat while we’re in this hotel for six days.

Friday the 22nd was a free day. I had great hopes for a wonderful day but was disappointed. I bought a San Francisco City Pass for $75 (one for each of us) that allows us to do four things in SF. Everything costs a lot here so it was in theory a great deal. I had heard so much about the California Academy of Sciences in Golden Gate Park with its aquarium, planetarium and museum. We used the Big Bus (a hop on, hop off bus) to get there. It took much longer to get there than anticipated and then the crowds were awful. I couldn’t handle the din and the press of the crowds so we were probably in the building less than a half hour ($50 each entrance...) although we did see Claude, the albino alligator. We walked over to the botanical gardens that Doug was anxious to see. There were lots of different plants but not much was blooming at the time so it was just a lot of green. It was nice to have an oasis of green in the middle of the frantic big city but it was still a bit disappointing to me. We walked over to a Korean restaurant for lunch. We were both disappointed in that which was odd because we usually love Korean food. Got back on the bus for a two hour ride back to the hotel. We were too tired to go anywhere to eat so just went downstairs to the bar/pub/cafe and got dinner. It was really good, a vegetarian farro risotto. Wandered back over to Trader Joe’s to buy some bread, peanut butter and jam to make sandwiches for the next day. We also bought some ice cream bonbons to drown our sorrows.



I was texting with Anney while we were on the sightseeing bus and found out that Chad accepted a job in Reno, Nevada that starts July 15. We knew he was interviewing all over but that was a kick in the gut to hear that they’re definitely leaving. We’ll miss them so much. Finley has been such a huge part of our lives since he was born and my heart hurts at the thought of not being able to see and be with him as much. I’m so very sad.

Saturday the 23rd. Laundry and ironing this morning. We have things hanging all over the hotel room trying to dry them out. Having to live out of a small suitcase for 16 days means washing out things in the sink. Concert tonight is in Berkeley and is an outdoor concert so I’m looking forward to that. The music is less stuffy, more fun, and infinitely more enjoyable in my opinion. I’m not sure what the temperature is going to be so it’s hard to know what to wear. We’ve had outdoor concerts where we’ve sweltered (Cincinnati) and outdoor concerts where we’ve frozen (Bethel Park/Woodstock). It’s supposed to be fairly warm at around 70 but there may be a breeze off the ocean.

Sunday, June 24th. The concert last night was great. Lots of crowd pleasing numbers and a really appreciative crowd. I told Doug I thought the audience was probably 95% members. We were able to talk to a few people including a former temple sealer and patriarch in front of us. People were waving across the grounds to friends from their wards and stakes. The theater was called the Hearst Greek Theatre and looked like an old coliseum with pillars, cement, etc. We thought we’d be sitting on the cement backless benches but luckily were in the folding chair seats. As usual I sat between Michelle Marshall and Rebecca Vanderbeek. The website had listed several food vendors there so I decided to wait and get something to eat there. Well....there was only one vendor who sold mostly beer (10 employees standing around bored to death because this was a mostly Mormon crowd) and hot dogs and poke bowls. Well, I didn’t know what a poke bowl was but ordered that. Ick. I’m still not sure if it was fish or just a weird nasty vegetable but the sauces were spicy and everything was cold (purposely). Oh well, live and learn. Now I know I don’t like poke bowls!

I was touched by some audience members two rows in front of me. I would’ve liked to have talked to them but there was no way for me to get there. The one lady was obviously deaf and visually impaired as well. She had an interpreter with her who was doing side by side signing with the deaf lady’s left hand right in the palm of her right hand as she interpreted. It was moving to watch them and even more moving to realize that this sweet lady wanted to be at a concert she couldn’t hear to “see” people she couldn’t see perform, because I presume she knew the spirit would speak to her soul and convey the music to her in a special way. It was obvious that she was a church member because I could tell by her body language that she knew and loved “Come, Come Ye Saints.” Another reminder to me that people love the choir and the message they share and that I need to do better at not taking for granted their mission and the light they are to so many people. It was an awesome reminder for me. The ride on the Bay Bridge on the way home with the beautiful bay, the moonlight, and the city lights was beautiful.

Our Sacrament Meeting this morning was wonderful. Elder Donald Hallstrom from the Seventy and his wife spoke to us. She spoke of keeping Christ foremost in our thoughts and told of several experiences in their travels including meeting a Turkish Priest in Israel who sang to them in the Aramaic language. She said rather than singing to them that he turned his back to them and sang to a small picture of the Savior on the altar in his tiny church. She said it was a powerful witness to her that he knew that he must always keep the Savior in focus and foremost in his life.

Elder Hallstrom spoke of reverence (revering the Savior and his teachings) and of the importance of group reverence (Sacrament meetings, etc), family reverence (teaching in the home) and personal reverence (personal study, etc). He told of how reverence and strength in families can positively affect generations to come and told stories of his aunt’s death in childbirth and his sister’s death 10 days after giving birth to her fourth child. He said that both situations could have caused bitterness but because of the family foundation of faith and reverence the family was able to overcome the pain and turn to the atonement for peace and comfort. It was a powerful message. It’s easy to become bitter and angry when things don’t go the way we think they should and it’s much harder to stay on the covenant path. I hope my sons who have wandered off that path remember the things they were taught in the home, on their missions, and in the temple and return soon. In the meantime I will love them, pray for them, and never give up on them.

A few hours later:

I’m a mess right now. We just FaceTimed with Finley and he excitedly told us that he’s going to move “next to” us! He knows we’re in California and they told him Nevada was next to California so with his 3 year old logic that means he gets to live next door to Grandma and Grandpa. He has no clue what’s coming and it’s breaking my heart. I don’t want to be on tour anymore. I want to be home hugging that boy as much as I can before they take him away from me. My heart hurts.

A few more hours later:

I’ve calmed down a bit down and considered strongly just deleting what I’d written earlier but decided to let it stay. Why? Because life isn’t always about rainbows and ponies and sweet things. Sometimes life is about pain or disappointment or grief and sometimes meltdowns are warranted. I’m still learning, I’m still growing, and I’m still very, very human and want my posterity to know that.

Monday, June 25th. Well yesterday was certainly a roller coaster day of emotions. It ended back up on a positive note as we FaceTimed Derek and Shelby and got to see our precious Zoe. She was confused and kept trying to eat the phone but we told ourselves that she recognized us on the phone. At least we got to see her sweet face and talk to Derek and Shelby for a while. Technology has its downsides but it sure has it’s upside too!

This morning we walked to and through Chinatown. Yesterday Dirk Porter (in Doug’s carpool) had shared with us two coconut buns he bought in Chinatown on Saturday (he served his mission in Hong Kong so knew what was good). Well, they were so yummy that we decided we needed to go find some more so off we went. It was a nice morning to walk. The fog/mist hadn’t burned off yet and it was on the cool side but I loved it. The sun is burning brightly now that I’m back in the hotel room and I’m glad to be inside where it’s air conditioned. We finally found the bakery that Dirk told us about and just wandered around the area a bit so I could take some pictures. We didn’t have long this morning though. We came back and ate at a place across the street from the hotel called Lemonade. It had, of course, various flavors of lemonade along with lots of great food choices. Doug had a curry cauliflower and golden raisin salad and also a fresh mozzarella/tomato/pesto/balsamic vinegar sandwich. I had some mac and cheese and it was good. I have a tooth that’s really bothering me so wanted something nice and soft. We also bought a (huge) pistachio macaron and split it. It was nice to get out of the hotel for a while. Now Doug is off at his sound check/rehearsal and I’ve got three hours of feet up/napping/reading/sewing time before I get on the bus for the concert tonight at the Shoreline Amphitheater.




Tuesday, June 26. The concert last night at Shoreline had an enthusiastic but small audience. I personally think that three concerts all in the Bay Area wasn’t really wise because none of the venues have been even close to full. Oh well, not my decision. I wasn’t feeling well and almost decided to stay back at the hotel but ended up going. I thought I’d buy something there to eat because the website for the venue listed many places. Well...there was only one place open and all they had were burgers, hot dogs, chicken strips, etc. I bought some chicken strips and fries but they weren’t very good. Live and learn. I’ll eat something at the hotel before I get on the bus tomorrow. I just kind of vegged and half slept through the performance since I felt lousy. I’ve had a nasty toothache (gee, what a surprise) off and on through the trip and it and my stomach were bothering me yesterday. The audience was great though. There was one man who stood up and applauded enthusiastically after each song. The guest conductor for the encore number was Dr. Tim Seelig, director of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. There was a bit of a shockwave through the audience when he was announced but then everyone applauded enthusiastically. I think it was great; another example of President Nelson’s counsel to build bridges instead of walls.

This morning we got moving and caught a Lyft ride down to the piers to take a bridge to bridge tour. We’d never used the Lyft app before but it went smoothly and I’ve been much more impressed with the Lyft drivers we’ve had than some taxi drivers we’ve had in the past. The cruise was 90 minutes long and quite interesting as they had a taped narrative. It was still a bit foggy so I didn’t get very good pictures of the Golden Gate Bridge and it was chilly but we still enjoyed it a lot. We saw a few seals and lots of sea birds. The brown pelicans interested me since the ones we’ve seen in Utah are all white. We ate lunch at Alioto’s. Doug had a nasty looking fisherman’s stew with all sorts of creatures in it while I wisely chose some pasta. We went to get on the Big Bus to come back to the hotel but found that the pass we bought didn’t allow us to use the Big Bus twice. Grr! We walked a few blocks, picked up a Lyft ride and made it back fine. Now it’s nap/rest/whatever time until we go to the Giants’ baseball game tonight.







Thursday, June 28th in the wee hours of the morning. Between Doug’s snoring and my stomach issues there’s not much sleep happening tonight. I decided I was better off accomplishing something rather than stressing and fretting that I wasn’t sleeping. I didn’t sleep much last night at all due to someone’s heavy snoring and my toothache. Oh well, I’ll sleep when we get home!

We had fun at the baseball game last night. We shared a Lyft ride with Dirk and Julie Porter so that saved us a bit of money. The traffic was horrendous and I was happy we weren’t trying to drive in it. We found a place that sold really good turkey sandwiches so that’s what we both had for dinner. I, of course, had to have some cotton candy too. I love the stuff but only have it when we go to a ballgame so that averages about once every three years. It was a slow game at first but there were a few exciting moments and the Giants won 3-2 over the Colorado Rockies so the hometown crowd was happy.



 We had to have our big suitcases loaded into the trucks to be sent home Wednesday morning so that was the main thing on the agenda. Now we’re living out of our small carry-on size suitcases for the next six days which is going to be a challenge. Doug had to be on the bus by noon since the concert was further away in Sonoma. I made the decision to skip this concert. I was still tired and with a headache from not sleeping the night before and my tooth/jaw were aching. I just didn’t have it in me to be “up” for several hours. Doug didn’t get back until midnight so I’m glad I stayed in. I just sewed, read, slept, and generally did nothing which felt good.

Now I’m supposed to be asleep since we get on the bus at 5:30AM. There are groups leaving at 3:30 though so I’m grateful we’re not in one of those groups. I hope to get some sleep in the next few hours.

Friday, June 29th. Yesterday was a long day. I didn’t sleep at all Wednesday night and so started the day at a deficit. We got moving around 4:45 and were on the bus by 5:30AM to head to the airport. We got through through security fairly quickly and then waited around until our 8AM flight to Seattle. There we had about a four hour layover. We got some lunch and then just vegged. I ended up taking some Norco because my tooth/jaw hurt so bad and between that and no sleep at all I was a zombie for a few hours. We then flew from Seattle to Vancouver, which was only a 32 minute flight, and then got on buses for the hotel. The traffic was awful since it was rush hour. It seems like we’ve hit a lot of rush hour traffic this tour. We had a few hours before dinner and so got unpacked and then walked to a small grocery store a block or so away to get some yogurt, granola, etc for our breakfasts. Dinner was a nice Asian inspired meal but everything was cold. I really don’t think there’s a way to keep a buffet hot for 550 people though. Collapsed and slept fairly well even though we’re in a downtown hotel with lots of noisy traffic outside.

Woke up to rain which disappointed me since we had planned on walking to Stanley Park. We finally decided to brave the weather and it really wasn’t too bad. It drizzled mostly and we had umbrellas so were fine. We walked along the sea wall to the park and saw a lot of interesting things. It was fun watching the seaplanes take off and land. I took a bunch of pictures to show Finley. We thought it would be fun to take a ride in one until we found out it cost $95 per person for a 10 minute flight. Sheesh!




We saw so many beautiful herons in the shallow water and also saw a bald eagle up in a tree. There was a neat section in the park with totem poles representing the first people who lived in Canada, the Metis and Intuit tribes.




We walked a little further and found a cute little lighthouse at Brockton Point. We were pretty tired by then and still had to walk back so turned around. The park itself is huge, 1000 acres and the third largest urban park in North America. I would’ve loved to explore more. There’s a wetlands area in the middle of it that would’ve been fun to visit. We walked back and stopped at a seafood restaurant where we sat at a table by the window overlooking the harbor. Doug loved his local halibut and the Manhattan clam chowder and I enjoyed a margherita pizza. It felt good to get back to the room after our 6.5 mile walk. Doug promptly fell asleep but it’s too noisy during the day so I just downloaded pictures and rested. Now what to do with the rest of the day?





Saturday, June 30th. We ended up going back out last night to get something little to eat at Tim Horton’s, which made our walking mileage for the day up to eight miles! Barry Anderson, the tour director had said that we all needed to go to Tim Horton’s and buy donuts and got chocolate. He also said we had to try poutine (something Matt has been after us to try too). So, off we went. The poutine was just strange, not really bad but not really good either, French fries with gravy and cheese curds. Weird.

Came back to the hotel and got a text that Brent had been taken to the hospital by ambulance with sudden memory loss and that they feared a stroke or blood clot in the brain. That of course threw my sleep off, along with worrying about Chad and his interview. My legs ached too from the long walk in shoes that weren’t made for walking. We found out this morning that Brent had a TIA and while he still doesn’t remember yesterday, the rest of his memory had returned and he was being released today. Such a relief. He’s probably the most health conscious of all us kids and he’s the one that had a TIA? I don’t understand sometimes. Anyway, glad he’s home and doing better.

We walked down to a restaurant near the harbor to have Belgian waffles for breakfast that we had seen advertised yesterday. There was a huge Holland America cruise ship in the harbor. I still don’t know how things that big float. It’s like a floating city. Doug enjoyed his waffles but I wanted them to taste just like the waffles in Belgium and they didn’t. It was a nice break from our normal mornings of yogurt and fruit in the room though. Walked back down a couple hours later to buy some sandwiches from Subway for Doug’s lunch and my dinner. Stopped in a toy store to see if I could find something for the kids. I’ve been looking this whole trip for t-shirts for them but just couldn’t find anything I liked. There was a cute seaplane toy that I would’ve loved to get for Finley but we simply don’t have room in our luggage so had to find something smaller. I found a horse and knight set like the ones he plays with at the Treehouse Museum. We found a little wooden giraffe (yong neck) pull toy for Zoe. Now Doug is off at his rehearsal/sound check and I’ve got some free time before the concert tonight in the Orpheum Theatre. I think I’ll pull out my hexagon project. Some day I may actually finish it!

Monday, July 2nd. Missed a few days but I’ll try to catch up as best I can. The concert at the Orpheum in Vancouver was great. It was a beautiful old theatre, built in the 1920s, when they knew how to make beautiful buildings. I’m just not a fan of the new sleek glass and concrete buildings. I love the older architecture and this place didn’t disappoint. Chandeliers, red carpet, carved wooden balconies, beautiful balustrades, intricately painted ceilings, etc. The audience was so receptive too, probably the most receptive thus far. I believe the concert must have been sold out since I didn’t see any empty seats from where I was sitting in the lower balcony. It was touching to me when the choir sang the traditional “God Be With You” at the end of the concert. The audience was already standing and remained standing and most of them sang along with the choir. Another touching tour moment.



Sunday’s Sacrament meeting was wonderful too. Our speakers (and new traveling companions) were Elder John Pingree and his wife Anne. I revel in the spirit in these meetings. The ballroom wasn’t big enough to hold our entire group so we were in a different room with the sound piped in. I was probably able to hear better that way, but I missed being able to see the speaker’s faces as they spoke to us. It was a wonderful meeting though and nice to have that break to reflect and renew.

After Sacrament Meeting we had two hours to kill before the buses would arrive and already had checked out of our room. We walked down to Gastown, an older area of Vancouver. I wanted to see the famous steam clock and it was really fascinating. We missed the hourly “whistle” by 15 minutes but still enjoyed seeing it. We had to get some lunch before getting on the bus (this is the part of tour I don’t like because we don’t like having to buy food on Sunday but oh well....). Doug bought a tandoori tikka masala hot dog from a street cart which smelled good but since I was having stomach issues I passed on it. 





We walked back to the corner market and bought a couple bananas, a loaf of bread and some cheese to eat on the bus. The border crossing went smoothly and was uneventful. There was an awful accident on the freeway but our bus driver exited early and took the back roads through beautiful farmland (which was soothing and calming to my soul after the hustle and bustle of the big city). We were the third bus to leave Vancouver but the first to arrive in Seattle because of her advance planning. Some of the buses were delayed an additional 3-4 hours.


My tooth had been on fire all day (it’s getting worse by the day) so we located a nearby Walgreens and walked there to buy some topical anesthetic to see if that would help. We passed the Benaroya where the concert will be. The neighborhood after that wasn’t the best and we hurried through it and back as fast as we could. The hill down to 3rd Avenue from where the hotel is was very steep and painful for these old knees but we made it. Came back to a delicious buffet meal and then to bed.

Today we met Matt and Sherlyn for lunch at Din Tai Fung, a Taiwanese restaurant less than a mile from the hotel. They came to Seattle for the concert tonight and it was great to see them. Lunch was wonderful but once again my tooth was causing me a lot of pain and so after lunch, instead of spending time with them like we had planned and like I wanted to, we came back to the hotel to rest. I’m SO tired of this. I’ve never had tooth pain like this before and I have rotten teeth and have had lots of problems. Doug called the dentist’s office this morning and got me an appointment for Friday morning which is the first time I could get in. We won’t get home until late tomorrow, the holiday is Wednesday, and they’re closed on Thursday. I hope I can make it four more days. I’ve taken a lot more pain medicine than I like to just to keep going. So frustrating because I had another tooth causing problems so I made sure to get into the periodontist and have it pulled and taken care of before tour so I wouldn’t have any problems with my teeth on tour and then this. So now I’m sitting here in the hotel feeling sad because I want to be spending time with my family but instead I’m nursing a sore mouth in hopes that I’ll feel good enough to go to the concert tonight.



Wednesday, July 4. Home at last. I woke up bright eyed and bushy tailed this morning at 5:30AM which didn’t make sense since that was 4:30AM Pacific time that we’ve been on for two weeks. I finally stopped fighting the pillow and got up and started laundry and trying to get caught up on computer stuff, paying bills, etc. Doug is working 10-4 today, Chad and Anney are at Moon Lake, and Derek and Shelby have plans with her family so there’s not much excitement here today for the holiday although I did hear (and feel) a squadron of F-16s flying overhead twice, probably for Riverdale’s parade.

Made it to the concert Monday night after taking more pain medicine for the dumb tooth. Michelle Marshall and Rebecca Vanderbeek were kind enough to trade seats with Matt and Sherlyn (their seats were one tier up from me) so that we could all sit together. That was so nice of them. It was nice to sit by the kids. It’s always hard to say goodbye but we’re going up there in November for Thanksgiving so we know we’ll see them again fairly soon.



Tuesday was the travel day. Some of the groups had to leave the hotel at 4AM and I’m glad we weren’t in that group. We caught the bus to the airport at 10:30, killed more than two hours before our flight, and then arrived in SLC at about 4:30, right during rush hour. Joleen was kind enough to pick us up and take us to Derek and Shelby’s where our vehicle awaited. We stayed there for about an hour just holding and playing with sweet Zoe. How we missed our grandchildren while we were gone. We finally made it home about 7:30PM after stopping at Harmon’s for some bread, milk, etc. I made some grilled cheese sandwiches for dinner and then we basically collapsed. So good to be home but so tired.

I crashed this morning after Doug left for work. I usually can’t sleep in the day more than about 20-30 minutes at a time but I was out for about two hours. I must have needed the rest. Spent a couple of hours putting more stuff away, paying bills, etc., and now the ironing awaits me. It looks like I’m back in my routine already!